Silicon Valley dating now means spreadsheets, AI and $5K-a-month coaches

entryleveljobsc 13 points 3 comments November 03, 2026
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GlibMonkeyDeath

Gather round kids, let Grandpa tell you how to find a significant other: Spend lots of in-person time with eligible members of your preferred demographic. That's basically it. That's why school is ideal (surrounded by eligible people of the same age, usually with little life baggage); but work, religion, sports/hobbies, or preferably a combination, are also time-tested hunting grounds. I used a combination of school and sports. Dating can't be reduced to a spreadsheet. Many of the long-term marriages I know about (including mine) would not have survived that degree of analytic scrutiny up front. Conversely, of the divorced people I know, many looked like good matches "on paper." Humans are still social monkeys, and it takes a while to figure out compatibility.

Ancalagon

Maybe try working less, getting some hobbies, and growing a personality.

watwut

Is there any reason at all to date these men, other then money? Cause it seems to me that "no" and I cant wait till they complain women want then only for their money.

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